The truth that you only understand after being in relationship many times

Communication is the top priority.

All conflicts are caused by the lack of communication. The most taboo is cold violence. 

The problems of both sides are not clear but each is stunned. The matter has not been fundamentally resolved. Sooner or later, it will break out in my heart. The best way is to point out what is wrong or unbearable and let the contradiction obliterate at the source. If there is a sudden contradiction, please stand on the other side’s perspective and listen to the explanation.

Sometimes it’s not that you don’t love each other. It’s just that life is too boring and requires a little passion. Communication is not only about eating, shopping and watching movies, but also watching sunrise and sunset, making ceramics, flying kite fishing, learning a musical instrument, transforming the image of the other party, and changing another one. Hairstyle, running, reading a book, watching a concert, learning to cook, bungee jumping, skiing, traveling, watching a theater, you can try anything you haven’t done before, falling in love.

Keep a distance with the opposite sex. 

Don’t give yourself a chance to breed emotions with other opposite sex. Remember that you are already in a relationship. If you are too close to the opposite sex, the object can easily quarrel with you.

Love me, love my dog.
If you love someone, you need to care about the people or things related to the other person. The social circle of love is a process from intersection to union, and each other has to accept each other’s family and social circle.

Be a better self. Both know how to constantly improve themselves, strive to mature and grow, and move in the same direction, so that such a relationship can continue to become better in the process of continuous experience. You must look more at your own heart, understand your own inner feelings and emotions, work hard to grow yourself in your relationship, and know how to better maintain and manage your relationships.

Samuel Whyte

A psychology enthusiast, interested in movies, painting,psychology, hiking, workout etc.

Speaks Chinese and English.

Currently lives in Shanghai, China.

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