What are the best romantic relationship tips? Chapter One

First of all, the most important point is: Learn to love yourself first, and then you could get others love.

And I hope you guys could have one brand new understanding about love after reading this post.

1. It should not be your age that makes you enter the palace of marriage, but the joy of love.

2. Always retain 20% mystery. Unreserved women, like a spoiled movie, extinguished the idea of letting men see the end.

3. Boys who can reason with you are more worth cherishing than boys who can only coax you. The former hopes to work hand in hand with you to create a better future; the latter may be afraid that you will be angry, or may only care for a moment and a good night, trapping you in a utopia of sweet lies.

4. Material is not the most important factor in feelings, but at least it is within the top three and five.

5. Most of the pain in love comes from the below three expectations:

He must be the most perfect, and the boyfriend of other people cannot be better than him, otherwise I will be uncomfortable.

He must always think of me and tell me everything, otherwise he will not have me in his heart.

He must love me 100% and he must be considerate to me, otherwise he just doesn’t love me.

Mature love must go through a “see through” process.

People are imperfect, and love is tolerant of each other and the shortcomings of each other except for the advantages.
People are independent individuals. If you don’t want to tell you something, you can treat it as his protection.
People are “selfish”, love must be reserved, and he is the same as you.
Accept the differences between people and the selfishness of love.

Lower expectations in love, good feelings are not vigorous, but long flowing.

There are many people chasing you, nothing to show off. Firstly, it will scare away boys who like you. Secondly, it may not be that you are too good, but that you look so good to chase.

Start carefully and end well, so as to gather and disperse. After all, trying to save it is too ugly.

Don’t try to change each other, but in daily running-in, influence each other subtly. If you don’t understand him being decadent and lazy, then you should exercise self-discipline and diligence every day, infect him with actions, and curse him for three days a week instead of probating him.

The independent personality of a girl is always a potion for maintaining charm, and the independence I understand is the end of love in love-the courage to rely on and be independent.

For example, you can cry with him if you lose the key and cannot enter the door, but you must know how to contact the unlocker; if you are sick and uncomfortable, you can let him take care of you, but you must know how to take care of yourself so that you don’t always get sick.

Sending flowers and promises seems to love you very much, but in fact these things are not difficult at all. As long as he wants to coax you with the excuse of love, he can do it.

Samuel Whyte

A psychology enthusiast, interested in movies, painting,psychology, hiking, workout etc.

Speaks Chinese and English.

Currently lives in Shanghai, China.

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  2. Just checking in to show my agreement. Your post is well structured Nice job!

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