LIFE EXPERIENCE

How’s your life after getting married?

When I first got married, I was very uncomfortable sleeping with my wife. I suddenly woke up in the middle of the night and found that there was a person next to me so close to me, so close to me, with a small hand wrapped around my hand. Snoring as much as you want, because you will be pinched by a gentle hand, and finally awakened…

Up to now, I am used to having someone next to me when I go to bed. Once I am on a business trip or when I go out to work, I am half-dreaming and half-awake at night. I hear my own snoring. I wonder why I don’t have the warm little hand to wake me up. As I read, I found a large icy area, and my mood would suddenly become empty.

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After a year of marriage, my wife’s mother had terminal cancer, persisted for a few months, and left. One night, when I woke up in the middle of the night, my wife was beside me with her back to me, turning her head and sobbing silently. I hugged her, she curled up in my arms, tears wet my arms. I held her tightly.

Once on a bus, I was accidentally closed by the driver ahead of time, and the back of my hand was pinched by the closed door. Her blood was dripping. Her eyes were red, and she yelled at the driver. And then she got very mad.

The child was born and grew too well. She was not strong at all. She was too tired to deal with it. When she urinated, she sprained her waist. She insisted on sitting upright on the ground, holding the child tightly with both hands. As a result, he sprained his waist and was paralyzed in bed for a week, and could hardly sit up. I asked for leave, fed her food, helped her wipe her body, made milk for the child, and put the child to sleep. In my free time, I put the sleeping child on the small bed next to me, sat next to her, and helped her to peel the apple. She looked at the ceiling and said quietly, what should she do if she can’t get up again. I said, I will leave you immediately and find a young, beautiful, rich and kind stepmother for the child. Don’t worry, you will not drag us down. She laughed and said viciously, dare you. Then, she took my cut apple and looked at me, both of them laughed.

As the child grew up, I became busy at work and worked overtime continuously. Even in the middle of the night, I frequently answered the phone, coordinated the production, and insisted on not asking for leave when I had a low fever. Finally, a high fever broke out and it reached 41 degrees. When I paid for the injection at the community hospital, I fell to the ground with convulsions. In the nurse’s urgent questioning, when the paramedic carried a stretcher and rushed to the ambulance transferred to the big hospital, I stumbled out the number of her who I remember the most.

After being hospitalized, I had been injecting various anti-inflammatory and anti-fever injections for several hours, feeling that everyone was burnt and swollen, and I finally regained consciousness. I vaguely saw her sitting next to me, her hands warm, tightly wrapping my cold injections. Hands.

In the next few days, my work phone was overwhelming. My hands were swollen and I couldn’t pick up the phone. She was full of resentment and didn’t want to answer it. But under the gaze of my pleading, she only frequently picked up my phone, turned on the speakerphone, and put it on Next to my pillow, I have to hold a pen to help me record on the paper.

leaders kept asking and explaining various things, and a dozen of them lasted for one or two hours. There are dozens of incoming and outgoing calls a day, and the mobile phone must be charged all the time, otherwise the battery will not be enough. Even in the middle of the night, the phone still rang from time to time. I was too tired during the day and fell asleep at night, and I couldn’t answer it. The next day, she listened to the leader’s loud reprimand on the phone, why I did not answer the phone at night, causing production problems, and asked me to return to the factory, must write a deep inspection. She turned pale with anger beside her. After she hung up the phone for me, I looked at her apologetically, and her tears rolled in her eyes.

No matter whether it is difficult or happy, I and her support each other, year after year…

I have been married for several years. One night, I suddenly woke up, and she blocked my mouth again. She grunted and rolled over, and you started snoring again. I smiled and held her in my arms… She shrank in my arms, it was really warm… I hugged her tightly…

…Parents are a wall that stands in the way of life and death…

…Children are the light of hope to inherit ideals…

… And my wife is a partner who accompanies me to grow up, mature to old age, and will always accompany me and walk down together…

Samuel Whyte

A psychology enthusiast, interested in movies, painting,psychology, hiking, workout etc.

Speaks Chinese and English.

Currently lives in Shanghai, China.

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