LIFE EXPERIENCE

How do you know when someone really loves you?

It is not the breadth of communication, but the depth of the relationship.

Many people feel that being with a person of the opposite sex is very happy, playing together every day, and still very close, you can make jokes and so on, it means that the other person likes you.

Yes, this view is reasonable, but it’s not quite accurate yet. I prefer to call this state “favorite.” “I think you are a good person, with a good personality, and you get along very well, and I am willing to communicate with you.

In fact, many people think this way. I don’t have much purpose in communicating with you. I just think that you are good and comfortable together. When can it be determined whether a person likes you? There are so few points.

  1. He/she is willing to tell you the most secret and painful things about himself, and he/she is willing to share with you, and will have in-depth emotional exchanges.
    He trusts you and is willing to “open up” and express his views all the time. For example, what do I think of XX, what do I do to you, and I can share many stories with you to prove that he/she has a certain degree of emotional involvement in you.
  2. There will be a sense of dependence, the desire to be close with you all the time, the act of further intimacy, and the care of others inadvertently.
    “You just fell, did it hurt?”
    “It rained just now, you said you didn’t bring an umbrella, I bought one for you, shall we go back together?”
    “Have you eaten? Do you need me to bring you something?”
    Naturally showing this thought of emotional concern is an important factor in judging whether the other person likes you.
  3. Even if there is no contact for a long time in a relationship, it does not feel unnatural.
    Yes, I’m very busy at work and I don’t get together often, but as long as I communicate, I won’t feel weird. This indescribable state is one of the best characteristics between lovers and lovers.
    “As long as I am with you, I feel very relaxed.”
    With this state of existence, the feelings of both parties will have a chemical reaction.
    In fact, more details are still in the process of getting along between two people. The other person likes you, you will definitely feel it.

In life, in the details, he will take care of you all the time.

And more details are still in the process of getting along between two people. The other person loves you, you will definitely feel it.

Samuel Whyte

A psychology enthusiast, interested in movies, painting,psychology, hiking, workout etc.

Speaks Chinese and English.

Currently lives in Shanghai, China.

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